The resurfaced conversations come after Sky appealed for help following a court ruling that granted Kanyari custody of her and her brother, Danny. Sky and Danny are the biological children of Kanyari and Bayo, who separated before the singer married Hiram Gitau, popularly known as Tash, in 2021. The children lived with Bayo and Tash until her death. Bayo died on 10 November 2025 after battling acute myeloid leukaemia. The dispute over the children’s care has unfolded following Bayo’s death, which brought renewed attention to the relationship between Kanyari, the children and their stepfather, Tash.

The screenshots also contain exchanges dated 15 and 18 October 2023, where Sky told her father that she had broken up for the mid-term school holiday and asked when he would collect her. Kanyari has continued to share conversations with his children online as he responds to questions about his involvement in their upbringing and financial support. He has maintained that he has consistently paid their school fees and recently claimed to have contributed KSh 1,000,000 towards their education.

Bayo’s death brought family issues into focus, particularly regarding the care of her children. Both Tash and Kanyari attended Bayo’s burial on 20 November 2025 at her home in Mugumo Estate, Kiambu. The resurfaced messages provide a glimpse into earlier exchanges between Sky and her father. Under Section 34 of the Children Act, parental responsibility automatically prioritises a surviving biological parent upon the death of the mother.

The dispute over the children’s care has been a subject of public discussion, with Kanyari insisting that they should live with him. He also raised concerns about the influence of those around them. Sky and her brother have been living with their stepfather, Tash, since their mother’s death. The court ruling granting Kanyari custody has sparked concerns about the children’s well-being and their relationship with their father.

Kanyari has been sharing conversations with his children online to demonstrate his involvement in their lives. The chats show that Sky and her father have been in regular communication, with Sky expressing gratitude for his support. The resurfaced messages have sparked a renewed debate about the role of biological parents in the care of their children.

The case highlights the complexities of family relationships and the challenges of co-parenting. Key issues include the role of biological parents in childcare, the influence of extended family members, and the best interests of the children. The court’s decision to grant Kanyari custody has significant implications for the children’s upbringing and their relationships with both parents.

Key points

  • The resurfaced WhatsApp messages show Sky Victor thanking her father for paying her school fees.
  • The children’s care has been a subject of public discussion following their mother’s death.
  • The court ruling granting Kanyari custody has significant implications for the children’s upbringing.

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Reporting for SaharaWire from the Nairobi bureau.