On October 29, 2026, 16 couples from Kinyinya Sector, Gasabo District, gathered to formalize their marriages before the law. Among them were Uwineza and Harerimana, who shared their journey of overcoming challenges and building a stronger family. They emphasized that merely cohabiting is insufficient and that a marriage founded on mutual understanding, trust, and shared responsibilities is essential.
Uwineza and Harerimana's relationship was strained due to frequent conflicts, which eventually led to their separation. The local authorities intervened, suggesting they part ways as their continued cohabitation seemed unfeasible. However, after Uwineza began attending church services and participating in various religious activities, he underwent a transformation that helped rekindle his relationship with Harerimana.
The couple's renewed commitment to each other and their faith has brought peace to their household. They attribute their newfound harmony to their strengthened bond with God, which has become the foundation of their relationship. Uwineza emphasized that their decision to formalize their marriage is a testament to their commitment to building a life together, founded on mutual trust and respect.
Harerimana acknowledged that their past conflicts often stemmed from his personal struggles, including excessive drinking, which negatively impacted their relationship and household. He expressed gratitude for the opportunity to start anew and rebuild their relationship on a stronger foundation. The couple's decision to formalize their marriage has given them a fresh start.
Deo Rugabirwa, the Executive Secretary of Kinyinya Sector, noted that many couples in the area still cohabitate without formalizing their marriages, which can lead to various challenges. He emphasized that legal marriage helps protect the rights of family members, particularly children and spouses. Rugabirwa highlighted that formal marriage reduces conflicts within families.
Bishop Albert Rugamba of the Bethesda Church in Rwanda and abroad commended the couples for taking the step of formalizing their marriages, both legally and spiritually. He stressed that this commitment demonstrates their dedication to building a life together, founded on mutual respect and trust. Rugamba expressed joy in seeing couples prioritize their relationship with God.
According to the National Institute of Statistics of Rwanda (NISR), the number of couples formalizing their marriages through legal registration decreased in 2025 compared to the previous year. The NISR report recorded 50,256 marriages in 2025, down from 52,878 in 2024, a decline of 2,622.
Key points
- Formal marriage helps reduce conflicts within families and protects the rights of family members.
- Couples who formalize their marriages often experience a stronger sense of commitment and mutual respect.
- Community leaders and religious authorities emphasize the importance of formal marriage in building stronger families.
