The wife of the Olu of Warri, Ivie Atuwatse III, has expressed confidence that her husband, Ogiame Atuwatse III, will not change his position on polygamy. In a recent interview with BBC News Pidgin, Ivie stated that her husband's stance on the matter is unwavering. She emphasized that she does not expect him to take another wife, dismissing the possibility of accepting another wife if her husband's position were to change.
Ivie made these remarks while discussing her marriage to the traditional ruler and the challenges that come with it. She highlighted the demands of her husband's position and the difficulties of sharing him with his numerous responsibilities. According to Ivie, being married to the monarch comes with its own set of challenges, particularly when it comes to spending quality time together.
When asked if she would accept another wife if the Olu changed his previously stated position on polygamy, Ivie was adamant that it would not happen. She expressed her confidence in her husband's stance, saying, "Firstly, His Majesty no go fit change him mind about polygamy. Make we just settle that one for there." This statement reaffirms her trust in her husband's commitment to their marriage.
Ivie also spoke about what she enjoys about being married to the monarch. She takes pride in watching people celebrate her husband's personality, achievements, and abilities. According to her, seeing people appreciate her husband's qualities gives her additional joy and makes her proud of him. This aspect of their marriage brings her happiness and fulfillment.
Ivie described herself as more than enough for her husband, saying, "Me alone, one me, I be like three women, so I dey alright for am." This statement showcases her confidence in their relationship and her ability to meet her husband's needs. She seems content with their marriage and is not concerned about the possibility of another wife.
However, Ivie acknowledged that being married to a traditional ruler comes with its challenges. She mentioned that sometimes her husband's busy schedule can make it difficult for them to spend time together. The couple is learning to adjust to the demands of the Olu's traditional and public responsibilities. Ivie admitted that it can be hard to share her husband with his many duties.
Despite the challenges, Ivie seems to be adapting to her role as the wife of the Olu of Warri. She is learning to navigate the complexities of her husband's position and is finding joy in the aspects of their marriage that bring her happiness. The couple's ability to communicate and work through challenges will be crucial in maintaining a strong and healthy relationship.
Key points
- The Olu of Warri's wife, Ivie Atuwatse III, is confident that her husband will not change his stance on polygamy.
- Ivie Atuwatse III finds joy in watching people celebrate her husband's personality, achievements, and abilities.
- Being married to a traditional ruler comes with challenges, including difficulty spending quality time together.
