A Grade A Customary Court in Mapo, Ibadan, Oyo State, has adjourned a divorce suit filed by Bolatito against her husband, Olajide. Bolatito claims that her husband became impotent a few years into their marriage, leading to a change in his behavior. She alleges that he became aggressive, cruel, and violent, often turning mild arguments into fights. The plaintiff also stated that her husband would physically assault her, leaving her with aches and pains.
According to Bolatito, her husband's behavior worsened over time. He would often throw her out of the house late at night after beating her. She reported one such incident to the police station, but the DPO's mediation efforts were unsuccessful. Bolatito claims that her husband accused her of infidelity, which she denied, citing his impotence. The situation further deteriorated, with Bolatito alleging that her husband attempted to strangle her in their home.
Bolatito recounted the incident where her husband attempted to strangle her. She stated that he covered her face with a pillow and grabbed her neck, but she managed to escape. After the incident, Bolatito ran out of their apartment and has been denied access to their children and belongings. She has prayed the court to dissolve their marriage and grant her custody of their children, with her husband responsible for their upkeep.
Olajide has agreed to the divorce. Bolatito and Olajide got married in 2007, and their union was initially peaceful and filled with bliss. They had a church wedding, but no bride price was paid. The couple enjoyed each other's company and extended their love to their children when they started having them. However, their marriage took a turn for the worse after Olajide became impotent.
Bolatito's marriage was initially described as "heaven on earth." However, her husband's impotence led to a significant change in his behavior. The plaintiff explained that her husband became impatient with her and would often punch her, leaving her to writhe in pain. There were instances where he threw her out of the house late at night after beating her to a pulp.
The court president, Mrs. S.M Akintayo, has adjourned the case for defense. Bolatito has sought the court's intervention to end their relationship, citing her husband's violent behavior and infidelity accusations. She also seeks custody of their children and maintenance for their upkeep. The case has been adjourned to allow the defense to present their side of the story.
The divorce suit highlights the challenges faced by some couples in Nigeria. Bolatito's case is a testament to the rising cases of domestic violence and the need for courts to intervene in such matters. The court's decision will be crucial in determining the fate of the marriage and the well-being of the children.
Key points
- The plaintiff, Bolatito, alleges that her husband's impotence led to a change in his behavior, resulting in physical abuse and accusations of infidelity.
- Bolatito has sought custody of their children and maintenance for their upkeep.
- The court has adjourned the case for defense, allowing Olajide to present his side of the story.
