A Nairobi couple recently made headlines after putting up a polite but firm notice at their wedding venue, asking guests to refrain from posting any photos or videos of them on social media platforms. The handwritten sign, placed at the venue entrance, spelt out the couple's wishes in clear terms. Guests were told not to upload or share any content featuring the bride and groom on WhatsApp, Facebook, Instagram or any other platform, at least not before the couple had the chance to do so themselves.
The notice read: "The Bride & Groom Have Asked Not To Be Posted. No Photos. No Videos. No Stories. No Sharing Of The Bride And Groom On WhatsApp, Facebook Or Instagram." However, the couple were not asking guests to put their phones away entirely. The sign went on to clarify that guests were welcome to capture moments involving themselves and others, but not the bride and groom.
The couple's unusual request sparked a wave of reactions online, with Kenyans divided over the decision. Some found humour in the situation, while others appeared to understand where the couple was coming from. The desire to share one's own wedding story, on one's own terms, is becoming an increasingly common request at Kenyan weddings as social media continues to blur the line between private celebration and public spectacle.
Evans Muriithi commented: "Law of rule of marriage state, before weddings announced to the church the two photos should be posted everywhere, for verification." Others, like Rebecca Paul, expressed understanding, saying: "I auntie thank you a lot, auntie some of massages people write like wakiwa emotional saana." Mike Wambua joked: "Hapa ndo unapata jamaa anapigiwa na bibi anasema ako meeting atampigia akitoka."
The couple's request was straightforward: they wanted to be in control of how and when their own wedding images entered the public domain, a sentiment that resonates with many in an age where unfiltered photos can spread across the internet within seconds of being taken. This desire for control is becoming increasingly important for couples looking to preserve their special day.
The story was reported by Lynn-Linzer Kibebe, a human interest editor at TUKO.co.ke, who has more than six years of experience in media. The article was published on October 2, 2026, at 8:21 PM. TUKO.co.ke is a popular online news source in Kenya, known for its human interest stories and day-to-day pieces that touch on the human aspect of life driving societal change.
The issue of social media and wedding etiquette is a growing concern for many couples. As social media continues to play a larger role in our lives, couples are looking for ways to balance their desire to share their special day with their need for control and privacy. The Kenyan couple's request has sparked a lively debate, highlighting the challenges of navigating social media and wedding etiquette in the modern age.
Key points
- The couple asked guests not to share photos or videos of them on social media to control their own wedding story.
- The request sparked a wave of reactions online, with Kenyans divided over the decision.
- The issue highlights the growing concern of social media and wedding etiquette for many couples.
