A Ugandan relationship expert has suggested that couples can revitalize their marriage by incorporating roleplaying and games into their sex life. The expert, who writes for The Observer, notes that many people view sex and marriage as not being a game, but argues that this perspective can be limiting. By embracing a playful and naughty side, couples can make their sex life more vibrant and exciting. This approach can help couples move away from routine and boredom.
The expert recommends introducing high stakes to indoor games, such as Ludo or Scrabble, and linking them to sensual rewards or tasks. For example, the winner of a game could request their partner to remove a garment, while the loser might have to perform an erotic task. This approach can add an element of excitement and unpredictability to the relationship. By doing so, couples can create a more dynamic and engaging sex life.
Another suggestion is to explore senses that have not been involved in lovemaking in a while. This can be achieved by disabling one sense, such as sight or touch, and making up for it with the remaining senses. For instance, a couple could try making love with the lights off or with one partner blindfolded. This can help create a new and exciting experience for both partners.
The expert also recommends challenging partners to communicate in new ways during lovemaking. For example, a partner might be challenged not to say a single thing or to only whisper. This can add an element of excitement and intimacy to the relationship. By doing so, couples can create a more sensual and engaging experience.
For special occasions, such as birthdays or anniversaries, the expert suggests creating a "magic wish" ritual. This involves designing an item, such as a make-believe magic wand or crystal ball, that grants one partner the power to make an erotic wish that the other partner must fulfill. This can be a fun and creative way to spice up the relationship.
The expert emphasizes that meticulously planning for sex in a marriage does not make one obsessed, addicted, or promiscuous. Rather, it shows a commitment to maintaining a healthy and enjoyable relationship. By prioritizing sex and making an effort to keep it exciting, couples can strengthen their bond and create a more fulfilling relationship.
The expert's suggestions are aimed at helping couples move away from routine and boredom and towards a more vibrant and exciting sex life. By embracing roleplaying and games, couples can create a more dynamic and engaging relationship. The expert can be contacted at [email protected] for more advice.
Key points
- Couples can spice up their marriage by introducing roleplaying and games to their sex life.
- Exploring senses that have not been involved in lovemaking in a while can create a new and exciting experience.
- Meticulously planning for sex in a marriage shows a commitment to maintaining a healthy and enjoyable relationship.
