Nigerian entertainer and social commentator Charles Oputa, popularly known as Charly Boy, has spoken about his acceptance of his two daughters' decisions to identify as lesbians. In an interview with Saturday Beats, Charly Boy shared his thoughts on his daughters' sexuality and defended his parenting approach. He emphasized that his response was guided by love and the understanding that adult children cannot be controlled by their parents. Charly Boy's comments come after he faced backlash for his social media posts about his daughters.
Charly Boy revealed that his youngest daughter was the first to come out as a lesbian, years ago, while his eldest daughter recently disclosed her orientation. Initially, it was a hard pill to swallow, especially since his eldest daughter had already built a family with six grandchildren and a great-grandson. However, Charly Boy stressed that he wants his children to be happy and has no control over their life choices. He expressed that as long as they are not bothering him or asking for money, their lives are their own.
Charly Boy's parenting philosophy has evolved significantly, particularly with younger generations. He believes that parents should advise their children rather than dictate what they should do. According to Charly Boy, the days of authoritarian parenting are over, and parents must adapt to changing times. He wants to be a supportive and open father, allowing his children to make their own decisions as long as they are standing on their own two feet.
The entertainer added that his decision to speak openly about his family aligns with his personality and the views expressed in his book, '999'. Charly Boy has always been known for his straightforward and honest approach to life. By sharing his experiences, he hopes to promote understanding and acceptance of diverse lifestyles. His comments have sparked a national conversation about parenting, love, and acceptance.
Charly Boy also spoke about his close relationship with former President Olusegun Obasanjo, whom he describes as a friend and father figure. According to Charly Boy, their friendship developed naturally over time. They often discuss various topics, including religion, for hours. Charly Boy admires Obasanjo's sincerity and openness, valuing their daily conversations.
Charly Boy praised Obasanjo's guidance and wisdom, often seeking his advice on personal matters. He feels that Obasanjo's fatherly advice has been invaluable in helping him navigate life's challenges. Their relationship is built on mutual respect and trust, with Charly Boy appreciating Obasanjo's role in his life.
Charly Boy's story highlights the importance of love, acceptance, and understanding in family relationships. His approach to parenting and his relationships with his daughters and Obasanjo offer valuable insights into building strong bonds. By prioritizing love and acceptance, Charly Boy hopes to inspire others to do the same.
Key points
- Charly Boy accepts his daughters' lesbian identities, prioritizing their happiness and love.
- Charly Boy advocates for a supportive and open parenting approach, advising rather than dictating to his children.
- Charly Boy shares a close relationship with former President Olusegun Obasanjo, valuing his guidance and wisdom.
